Anonymous: I love my brother’s wife.
Swami Ram Swarup: I’ve already told you that this is a heinous sin to have bad intentions towards one’s bhabhi. Bhabhi has been awarded a status of mother. At this stage actually you should leave the house permanently and should go out of that city.

Ajay Chand: Is havan necessary in a pooja?
Swami Ram Swarup: Hawan is itself a worship of Almighty God mentioned in Vedas. Hawan, yajyen, name jaap of God-Om, listening of Vedas and practice of Ashtang Yoga under guidance of a learned acharya has been told as eternal and true worship of God.

S: Respected Guruji,How to proceed with the same Gothra wedding if the girl and boy likes each other to a great extent. Please guide.
Swami Ram Swarup: My blessings to you.

No question of liking please but question is whether our vedic culture permits us to solemnize marriage of same gotra boy and girl and to go against the Vedas, is a sin. I paste an article in this regard.

Due to lack of knowledge of Vedas, people all over have been doing deeds against the Vedas which according to Vedas has been stated to be a kind of sin. Nothing can be done at this belated stage.