Jay: Swamiji Jay Shri Krishna, aap ke Shri Charno may Koti koti parnaam!
May Aap say 02 parshan poochna chahta hu?
Parshan ye hay, ke Hindu dharam ke anusaar Vivah apni zaat say hat kar karna chahiye ya zaat milti ho to kar saktay hai jesay ke kehtay hai ke Rajisthan reet kay mutabiq same zaat may nahi kar saktay example aapas may pita,maa aur dadi ki zaat nahi milni chahiye.
Phir gujrat reet kay mutabiq mama kay bachcho say yaa bhuaa kay bachcho say log kar letay hai kiya yeh sahi hai ?
Rajisthan ki reet ke mutabiq 07 pheray letay hai jo ke samajh may ata hai theek hai.
Aur Gujrat ki reet kay mutabiq 04 pheray letay hai kiya yeh sahi hai?
kirpiya uttar dijiye
Swami Ram Swarup: Mera aapko ashirwad.
(1)Aaj ke custom ke mutabiq yahi chal raha hai ki pita, maa aur dadi ki zaat nahi milnee chahiye. Baki aapko local pandit se salah zaroor lenee chahiye.
(2) Phere lene ki apnee-apnee reet banai hue hai, achchha hai ki shadi mein saat phere liye jaayein.
RKS: Namaste. I wanna marry a person whom I like very much but he suddenly move their step back. My parents suffering from health problems, they are worried abt my marriage. Brothers are also not ready to marry. Parents are in a great tension. How to overcome from all theses problems. Mujhe usi ladke se shadi krni he.
Swami Ram Swarup: My blessings to you, my daughter. In view of the circumstances mentioned by you it will be better if you also forget the boy. Yet if you will try to make contact with him, you’ll never be successful to marry with him, my daughter. Once a boy breaks the relation with girl, he’ll never try to reconsider it because he makes another relation with other girl. In your case, the boy has himself broken the relation with you, it means, now he does not like you. So, save your life and forget him forever. As regards health problems of your parents, they’ve to seek medical advice.