M K: Swami Ji Charansparsh I pray to God for your long and healthy life. Here I am writing my questions.
1. Swami Ji few months ago I told you that I am slowly inclining towards Vedic knowledge and was worried to marry because might be the girl won’t accept the Vedic knowledge as eternal and you said don’t worry go ahead find a girl and marry with acceptance of parents, love can change anything similarly you can convince her to follow the Vedic path with love.
Now with the grace of God and blessings of you, parents and elders I found my perfect match and the best part is this she is ready to follow Vedic path with me after marriage as much as possible even she left non-vegetarian food by herself because she know that I am a pure vegetarian and I explained her why it is wrong to consume according to Vedas but didn’t ask to leave, happy to see that without asking she left non- vegetarian food. My selection was not based upon physical beauty alone as it will fade day by day but it was based upon qualities of soul, we met on matrimony site and started loving each other by soul after knowing, soon we took next step and now we are engaged as to love or give heart without relation is not accepted. Looking forward for your blessings.
Swami Ji I know that surely couples intimating with each other after marriage some intimating only for physical relation which is wrong (their choice is based upon physical charm only) but some intimating in love (whose choice is based upon qualities of soul). Is there any problem in intimating in love, to make physical relation is not only the motto but when you love your wife completely with soul then this is normal to happen. Please answer.
2. Swami Ji I want to ask you if something is better than nothing or not? in case of following VEDAS
For Ex. Before I was eating Non Vegetarian food doing idol worship and some other habits which was not matching with VEDAS knowledge so by leaving those GOD will bless me or not? Or still I am same as before for GOD.
Swami Ram Swarup: My heartiest blessings to you, my son. I congratulate and again bless you to find a suitable match for you. I also send my good wishes to your parents. Please go ahead and get long, happy family life. Yes, your views are appreciated. As per Vedas, physical relation in married life is to get learned children only. Otherwise, love is based on pious qualities and heart with equal love combined and especially is based on love with soul to soul which is called Atmik pyar. Brahmacharya is main matter to be adopted in life either in married or in unmarried life. Kindly, try to read my book- Brahmacharya-dukh nivarak divya manni (in Hindi) worth Rs. 100/- excluding postal charges. It can be sent on receipt of your postal address, if you desire.
Yes, in Mahabharat, it is clearly stated by Vyas Muniji that if a person leaves non-vegetarian food etc., and follows Vedic path then God accepts him as a true devotee.
Harsh Singh: Shrimad Bhagwadgeeta – Ek Vedic Rahasya – Pratham Bhag (First 6 Adhyaye)
Swami Ram Swarup: Book is being sent to you, please.