Chetan: Guru ji namaste. Apne kaha hai ki hamein jeev sadhna krni chaiye jisse hamein shanti mile yeh sahi bat h par apne kaha ki hamein man apman mein samman rehna chaiye . to mujhe ye btaiye ki mahabharat mein shree krishan ne arjun se kha tha ki tumhe apne apman ka badla lena chaiye . samman nahi hai to kuch bhi nahi hai. Samman bahut jaruri hai . yeh bat mujhe smajh ni aa rhi ki krishan ji ne aisa kyu kha aur ap kehte ho ki hamein apman mein saman rehna chaiye . aap mujhe iska solution bataiye . mein bahut confusion mein hoon.
Swami Ram Swarup: Namasteji. Han! Jahaan badla aadi leney kee bhavna aati hai, weh balshalee Raja-Maharajaon ke karya hain. Parantu jab koi Vedic sadhna ke liye kamar kasta hai tab sadhna ke bal par uske badle, maan-samaan aadi kee bhavna svatah nasht ho jaatee hai. Phir uska koi shastru bhi nahin rehta kyunki jub Sri Krishna Maharaj bahrave (12th ) adhyaye mein Arjun ko updesh kar rahey hain to yeh keh rahe hain-
Samaha shatru cha mitrey…………………
Arthat shatru-mitrata aur maan-apmaan mein samaan raho.
Tulya ninda stuti……………. Arthat ninda aur stuti mein bhi samaan raho aur in baton ka dil par koi asar na ho.
Maan-apmaan, ninda-stuti aadi mein samaan rehney ka niyam visheshkar sadhkon par hee ghatit hota hai.
S C: Respected Sir, I’m a 21 years old boy. I can realize now I’ve done one of my life’s greatest mistakes by asking my friend to return back all the gifts which I had once gifted him as a token to express my love and affection towards him during our friendship, only because of my anger. If I would have thought morally that human beings ought to do mistakes. But, being Anuj’s friend, I must have tried always to be as much optimistic, patient and polite to him as I can so that I could make him realize and correct his mistakes, lies and his deceitful nature towards me and other people. Then only I could have considered myself as his true friend. But, my impatience, immaturity and short-temper made me a failure man. I unwillingly scolded him badly, even threatened him that if he didn’t return me all gifts soon, I would file FIR against him to police and eventually got all the gifts back.
Now, I’m regretting a lot. I’m repenting and finding myself in Agony and as a sinful person, every-time I look back my past. I can realize my mistake is unpardonable, just like a robbery and a replica of Destruction.
Sir, how can I get out of this and how can I repay my mistake to him? I’m ready to do whatever I have to in order to repay back all my mistakes to him? Please tell me.
Swami Ram Swarup: My blessings to you. You see, gift or donation once given to others, then the donor automatically looses his ownership rights and then only the donor attains peace and pious result of his donation etc. Keeping in view, no doubt, you have committed a blunder mistake and I also do not find any solution thereof. Now, if you would try to please your friend, I think his broken heart will not make him able to compromise. Yet, you may try your level best for the same.
Kishan: Swami ji namskar Maine suna hai ki vedo me atharva veda ek aisa ved hai jisme har tarah kr mantra, tantra or ha samsya ka samadhana diya gaya hai. To kya ye baat sach hai kripa karke batlaye.
Swami Ram Swarup: Namasteji. Atharvaved mein presemt tantric karma aadi ka koi sthaan nahi hai.
Atharvaved – gives details of God, medical science and details of medicine etc.