Pavan: Swamiji mujhme aatmvishwas ki kami hai aur mere dost bhi kam banate hein. kundli me lagna me chandra ke saath rahu aur guru hein. Koi upay batane ki kripa karen.
Swami Ram Swarup: Jyada dosti achchhi nahi hoti. Sachcha dost wahi hai jo musibat aur pareshani ke samay kaam aaye jo ek doosre ka hit chahta hai. Vidya na hone ke karann aaj aise doston ka milna asambhav sa dikhai deta hai. Isliye swarthy doston ki dosti se jitna bhi bacha jaye utna achchha hai. Haan koi achchha dost mile to ussey dosti karnee chahiye.
Mann aur shareer mein alasya hone ke karann aur is prakar maansik aur shareerik Shakti ki kami hone ke karann aatmavishvaas mein bhi kami aa jati hai. Manushya ko aalas ka tyag karke apne shubh karyon mein kathin parisharam karna chahiye. Aapko subah jaldi uthkar sair evam halki exercise karnee chahiye iske ilawa yogabhyas aur prannayam aapke liye bahut achchha hai. Iske liye samay nikalein, rozana newspaper ka editorial dhyaanpoorvak padein aur uspar ghar mein aur bahar discuss karein. Achchhi kitabein aur magazine padein aur phir jo aapke apne shubh karya hain jaise padhai likhai, naukari, business, mata-pita , guru ki seva itiyadi usey khud mehnat aur lagan se karein. Week mein ek baar chhutti ke din Arya Samaj mein jaakar hawan aur satsang mein shamil hoyein jisse aapka atmavishwaas khud hi badh jayega. Aur vedon mein navgrah poojan, present palmistry, kaal sarp yog, mangalik etc., ka varnnan nahin hai ,isliye vidwaan log isey nahin maantey isliye aap iski chinta bilkul na karein.
Prachi: I’m not getting job.trying since 1 year and also I want to know when I will get married?
Swami Ram Swarup: In this regard, I paste some of my articles below:-
As you know, this all is always in the hands of Almighty God (Parmatma). But God helps those who help themselves. So, I am sure that you‘ve been doing hard work to seek the job. I pray to God to fulfill your desire soon. Also, please chant Gayatri mantra daily and do hawan with Gayatri mantra daily both times. In the end of hawan, please pray to God to fulfill your desires. I hope God will sure listen to you.
Marriage is in the hand of Almighty God. However, God helps those who help themselves. So your parents must do their best to seek a suitable match for you. You must also do daily hawan with Gayatri mantra both times. In the end of hawan, you must pray to God daily for His blessings for the same. It will be much better if you also, chant the Gayatri mantra in heart without speaking it, sitting on any asan, along with its meaning.