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J: Swami ji, My husband and I have lots of fights. They are very bad. I think he loves his Mom more than me and sometimes I feel his Mom is snatching him from me. I feel very lonely and I need help. How do I prove to him that I love him more than anything in this world. I like to do seva for him but his Mom is there first and I feel like I am not doing my wifely duties. I feel lost. He blames me that I have very negative thinking. Tell me if I do. A Mother is never impartial but my mother-in-law has her favorites. I think she is not a good Mom and I don’t like her. Correct me if I am doing this wrong. Guide me so that I don’t sit and think of all negative things and live happily. How do I make my husband like me. If his Mom gets to all the things that I can do for him and does it all for him, obviously he will think I am not doing anything for him and he will not like me. I am so lost that there are days I want to end my life. Human life is so hard – how do I obtain moksha. How do I get rid of it all?
Swami Ram Swarup: In the family life the doubt, anger, pride and fight etc., between wife and husband is really bad and therefore is not appreciated. It can ruin the family life, so avoid the said bad habits and shower only love with sweet voice with your husband and others, according to relation. You must discharge your moral duties towards your husband, mother-in-law and others selflessly. You see, the true love need not to produce any proof. Do your duties without thinking that something will be given to you in return. One day, you will get success.
Do not try to give comments on others, then you will feel peace in your mind and heart. My blessings are always with you, my daughter.
Let your mother-in-law be favourable with your husband, it will never be harmful for you in future. You should only discharge your duties faithfully. The desire makes a man unhappy. So, try to kill your such kind of desires. When desire is not fulfilled, then anger starts which ruins the life. Please, avoid such situation. In Vedas, it is clarified by God that he awards the result of deeds of every person. Therefore, if you will hate your mother-in-law then definitely God will give you sorrows; if your mother-in-law hates you then God similarly will give her sorrows. If you love your mother-in-law inspite the hate from her side then sure God will give you peace and happiness.