SS: Having problems due to financial issues in a love relationship. Please help. (details provided)
Swami Ram Swarup: My blessings to you, my daughter.
Mostly the love marriage or the present love is based on physical charm only but due to ignorance, boys and girls get indulged in such love affairs and at last they’ve to repent. That is why, Yajurveda states that one should never give one’s heart to the opposite gender before marriage and physical contact before marriage is strictly prohibited and is a sin.
So, it will be in your own interest to immediately leave that boy. Whatever, ambitions you’ve mentioned in your question are a single hearted desire but every girl has such pious desire. However, hardly any fortunate girl gets the same. Main problem is only physical charm, nothing else.
So, I’ve advised you my daughter, to leave the boy immediately. Otherwise, your future will become dark. In this connection, I also paste one of my articles, below:-
For marriage, birth kundli matchetc., is not necessary because such procedure has not been mentioned in vedas, shastras, Bhagwad Geeta, Valmiki Ramayan etc. Vedas state that marriage should be performed based on good qualities of both sides. For example- Boy must be earning well to support his wife and wife must know the way of creating and maintaining good atmosphere of family.
Pawan: “kisika jhuta pani pina galat hai”. please translate this sentence in English.
Swami Ram Swarup: “It is wrong to drink the water which is left off after drinking by others”.
Rashmi: Guruji Maharaaj, Pranaam aur charan sparsh. A question has been in my mind for long time. what is the result awarded by God to a soul/mother who aborts the child willingly due to economical, social and keeping in mind other family circumstances. What the vedas say about it.
Could you please explain it . Becoz abortion is very common these days. What is the directive of God on this. With shat shat pranaam.
Swami Ram Swarup: My blessing to you, my daughter.
In any circumstances, the abortion has been stated to be a sin because it involves foeticide. So, it has been preached in Vedas that marriage should take place when a person is well-earning and is able to feed the family. Again my blessings to you all, my daughter.