T: Pranam guru ji. I love someone for last five years. Sometimes back he proposed to marry me. But before that he ignored me badly. After sometime of getting the proposal, I confessed all the things. Now he can’t accept me. And now he is saying that I can’t love you but it was only faith that you are not like others that is the only reason to desire to marry with you. And I am desperate to get him back in my life. What to do? Please advise me….
Swami Ram Swarup: My blessings to you, my daughter. Beti, when you know very well about him that his mind is not firm but is always changeable and he also makes links with other women then still you have not taken firm decision against him to boycott him from your life forever. I am astonished. Please save your life and forget him forever. He is a cheater. Please beware of this cheater and liar who can again and again try to exploit you physically.
I also paste my article in this regard-

There is no such mantra for such happenings (worldly) because happenings are against Vedas and Shastras. You should immediately break relationships because Yajurveda warns the boy and girl not to give their heart to opposite sex before marriage. You see this all is illusion and attraction towards physical charm. It is not a true love. Now, there remains no any alternative except repentance.

In the arranged marriage, such problems rarely arise. Love marriage must only be done if both boy and girl love each other heart to heart and soul to soul. This is checked if both never touch each other before marriage. Vedas tell that boy and girl must never give their heart to each other before marriage. So please be brave and learn to choose your life partner wisely and not blindly.

Harish: Sorry but these foods do not contain Vitamin B12.
Swami Ram Swarup: My dear Harishji. The food mentioned by me contain Vit B complex for which you may consult a nutritionist. After consulting, please also inform me.

Neha: Guruji pranam. Aap ne mera ans diya useke liye. Mujhe ek bte smjhe ne aayi jo mango leaves h unka kya krena hota? Meri bhut iccha h aapeke darshan ke. Hawan kreke acha feel hota h.. aaoe.
Swami Ram Swarup: My blessings to you, my daughter. You are always welcome. Beti, mango leaves agar sukha (dry) liye jayein to weh bhi havan kee jaltee agni mein daali ja saktee hain. Aap ka jub mann karey apne mata-pita ya bhai, kisi ek ke sath bhi yahan ved mandir mein aa saktee ho. Hameshaa se yahaan rehna, bister, bhojan aadi sab free hota hai.

Neha: Guruji pranam. Aapene mera ans kiya useke liye thanks. Guruji haean kreke acha feel hota h.. mango leaves ka kya krena hota h wo smjhe ne aaya . Guruji aap khabhi bhi uttrakhand aaye seva ka mauka dijiye . Guruji me aapeke darshan ke liye oct ya fir jan me aa oaungi. Me family ke sath ne aa skti.. kya me akele ya fir kisi frnd ke sath aa skti hu?
Swami Ram Swarup: My blessings to you, my daughter. Beti Uttarakhand mein to ab aa nahin paunga. Ab meri umar zyada ho gayee hai, ab safar nahi kar paunga, aap apne friend ke saath kabhi bhi aa saktee hain, aapko yahaan aakar apne mata-pita ka hee pyar milega aur mata-pita ke ghar jaisa hee atmosphere mehsoos hoga.

Shankari: Thanks a lot for your answer guruji. I have started my holy havan and doing it daily now. You have mentioned that you have send me 2 books and a cd for me. Thank ou guruji. But I’m yet to receive it. Very eagerly im waiting to receive books. After I receive those books, will start reading it and also will select few other books from you. Thank you guruji.
Swami Ram Swarup: My blessings to you and you are always welcome, my daughter.

I appreciate your pious deeds to perform havan which is really a true worship of Almighty God who creates and nurses the universe. The knowledge of Vedas also emanates directly from God wherein the God Himself preaches to follow Vedic path and perform daily havan. I would also advise you to do the jaap of holy name of God- Om. I paste my articles in this regard-

Shubh Karma

Hard working, devotion, dedication, honesty, services to the parents and elders to follow eternal religion mentioned in Vedas, practice of Ashtang Yoga, discharging moral duties to get progress in education, science simultaneously with spiritualism like, daily havan, to be in contact with the learned Acharya, to get his advice, are some of the pious deeds which make the future bright and obliterate the sorrows, problems, diseases, etc.

One must wake up early in the morning for early morning walk and exercises, must sit on meditation and chant holy name of God, must be away from any addiction and non-vegetarian. Such pious actions lead to long, happy life and bright future.


Please, start the day by chanting Gayatri mantra in the early morning sitting on suitable asan like Sukhasan, Siddhasan or Padmasan etc. concentrate on the point between two eyebrows which is called “Agyachakra”. The Gayatri mantra should be chanted along with its meaning both times. Also, please try to perform daily hawan even with Gayatri mantra. Then try to study any of my books daily and put up question if any.

After 15 days chant the Gayatri mantra only thrice thereafter do the name jaap of Almighty God-“Om”. The jaap must be done daily by heart and not orally.

I have already sent Books and CDs for which you may wait due to postal authorities matter.

Again, my blessings to you, my daughter.