Apurva: Kya naadi dosh ka koi upay nhi ….M luv marriage Krna chahti hu ..Family b Maan gyi dno ki pr naadi dosh ek darr betha rha h Dil me …..Plzzz koi upay btaiye..M khona nhi chahti dishant ko?
Swami Ram Swarup: I paste my articles in this regard:-
Marriage outside caste
God has created the universe. He has given us birth also. Now, again He has blessed us with the knowledge of Four Vedas to be obeyed, for attaining a long happy life. In Vedas, God has never mentioned about Nadi Dosh, Teva, Sarp Dosh, Kundli Matching etc. etc. So it is upto you whether to follow Vedas’ Philosophy, or to accept the custom against the Vedas. If you follow Vedas’ Philosophy, then please go ahead and arrange marriage outside caste. But Vedas tell that before marriage, the good qualities of both sides must be checked i.e. whether family is educated, boy is earning well, etc.
Caste system has not been made by God in Vedas. So in case of marriage, qualities of both bride and bridegroom must be kept in mind. Therefore different castes make no difference if boy and girl have good qualities to discharge their family duties and look after their children well. Good qualities must be learnt from Vedas, shastras and holy books. For example, Boy and girls must serve their parents, elders, must be God fearing, boy must be earning well to feed family properly, boy and girl must be educated. Both must shower their love to children of whole family and others. Boy and girl must never lie. Girl must be obedient to in-laws. She must be hardworking and several other good qualities must be gained by listening Vedas. Family of both sides must be satisfied by each others qualities.
It is very clear that marriage performed between Brahmin families gets broken in case of any shortcoming in any boy/girl. So one should not look only at caste.
Effect of Nadi dosh on having children
Vedas, Shastras, Shri Guru Bani, Geeta, Ramayan never tell about nadi dosh etc., nor say about kundali/tipadda etc. So please oversight the dosh and you may go ahead for marriage. The child problem arises always due to medical unfitness. So why do you take the advise of such panditji? And handicap child takes birth if parents take addiction etc. So, I think you need not to worry.
Isliye naadi dosh exist nahi karta aap befikra hokar vivah sampann karein.
Apurva: Kya apki koi ESI book nhi jisme hmare questn k aadhe ans mil jae?
Swami Ram Swarup: Aap Vedas divine light part I,II,III, IV, V (in English) sabhi pustakein yahaan se manga kar padein.
Vani: Pranam Guruji, Guruji is it wrong for a person to go out on a stroll after completing his work to refresh oneself, to take a break. Like a student after study of while day may like to go out of home to a park or just do a evening walk. Please clarify.
Swami Ram Swarup: My blessings to you, my daughter. Yes, one should go for a walk in the situation explained by you.