V: Guruji ke charnoon ma mera pranam. Guruji in one of the answers on the website you have mentioned that “agar koi bura vichar maan main aa jaye to wo bura karye karva hi deta hai”. Lekin guruji is bat ne muje thoda confuse kar diya ki, waise to aapki aur ishwar kripa se aise koi vichar aate hi nahi hain lekin kabhi koi aa bhi jaye to humeen to pata hai ki wo bura hai. Jaise ki padte wakt achanak T.V dekhne ka maan kar jaye ya koi aur aalasya aa jaye ya aur bhi koi aisa vichar. To muje pata hai ki yeah sahi nahi hai to I will not follow my maan despite such a thought had come.
Secondly ek jeev atma ko to waise bhi maan aur buddhi par control karna hi hota hai. Maan deviate hoga lekin iska matlab yeah to nahi ho sakta na Guruji ki hum us deviated maan ke anusar hi karye karna shroon kar de. I mean to ask I can always choose to ignore and destroy that bad thought by not paying attention to it and continuing my hard work.
To Guruji main bas itna janna chata hoon ki chaye maan main bure vichar aa bhi jayeen lekin I am empowered not to convert that in action.
Aapka bhaut bhaut dhanayad Guruji
Swami Ram Swarup: My blessings to you. Bura vichaar bura karma tab karayega jub bura karma karne wala us burey vichaar ko sweekaar karega. Agar sweekaar nahin karega to bura karma kaise ho sakta hai? Isliye burey vichaar ko mann mein aaney na do aur aa jaye to usey mann se nikaal do. Yes, further you are right.
Harshit: If mother is pregnant, mundan can be done or not of his son. Son is 5 years old. Please reply thanks.
Swami Ram Swarup: Actually, mundane ceremony is performed within three years of age. Still mundane ceremony can be performed, despite mother being pregnant.