Sid: Pranam Guruji, Guruji under bhramcharay, one requires to control his senses.
1. Does that means that one will require to control his dhayan also from deviating to unwanted things. Besides sitting in meditation.As we also need to control our MAAN and it basically gets deviated because we let our dhayan to wander in unwanted areas.Please confirm me that we need to control our dhayan by bringing it back and again to our studies, it wont come on its own
Swami Ram Swarup: My blessings to you. In the matter of dhyan, concentration is must but I may tell you that all this knowledge is gained personally from learned Acharya matter being the deepest, secret and connected with divine knowledge and not worldly. Again, in this matter, there is no excuse of time etc. Yes, when the mind wanders then again and again, it should be brought on the point of concentration.

R: Pranam swamiji. I love a Muslim girl but she rejected me saying that I am a Hindu and we do not have a future. So, I stopped talking to her but I can’t forget her. Please suggest me.
Swami Ram Swarup: My blessings to you. Pure love is not a sin if it is by heart. But if the girl is denying you then you must leave the love for her benefit because love wants sacrification.